Hosting an Au Pair – A Unique and Flexible Childcare Option

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I am happy to feature my 2nd guest blogger of the week, Lori Brust, local au pair child care consultant. This post is a little bit longer than my usual posts, but provides a wonderful overview of hosting an au pair as an affordable childcare option.

” With more dual-working and single parent families than ever before, parents are finding it difficult to balance life, family and work. For busy families, an important part of this juggling act is finding the right childcare for their children. Families need a trustworthy caregiver that can offer the flexibility a busy family requires. There is one flexible and affordable option available to parents that is gaining popularity nationwide—hosting a live-in au pair.

As a local childcare consultant, I have the chance to meet many of the au pairs who join our program. These au pairs are adventurous, educated, young people from abroad who choose to leave their life at home for one year to share their love for children with an American host family. Au pairs are excited to become part of an American family and experience American culture by living in our communities, volunteering and taking classes at local colleges.

Although the au pair program has been around for more than 24 years, many families are unaware that hosting an au pair is a childcare option available to them. The U.S. Department of State regulates all au pair programs in the United States, offering parents the peace of mind that their children are in trusted, qualified care. Au pairs live and study in the United States for one year on a J-l cultural exchange visa, in exchange for providing 45 hours of childcare per week. Au pairs are between the ages of 18 and 26 years old and speak proficient English. The au pairs I meet bring great enthusiasm into the home and are excited to teach their host children about a new language, culture and music. Host families are able to take advantage of this unique form of childcare and cultural exchange, building relationships with their au pair that last a lifetime.

During their stay in the U.S., au pairs provide live-in childcare and help their host families more easily balance their busy lifestyle. A host family can set their au pair’s working hours according to their hectic schedule, often having the au pair drive the children to and from school or to appointments, as well as supervise the older children during after-school hours and vacation breaks. And a great help to the family, au pairs also assist with light household responsibilities, such as preparing meals, the children’s laundry and helping the children keep their rooms and play areas neat.

For an active family with children, hosting an international au pair at the average cost of $360 per week is one of the most affordable childcare options available. And yet, hosting an au pair is also one of the most rewarding childcare options for families—au pairs create a very caring environment for children and enrich children’s playtimes with international games, stories and activities, while also helping families’ better balance their daily lives and schedules. Hosting an au pair not only provides the flexible and affordable childcare families need, it also creates an international bond that will last a lifetime.”

If you are interested in finding out more about hosting an au pair as a childcare option, please reach out to Lori Brust directly and let her know you read her post on the Parenting Life Lessons blog. Lori has a ton of experience and has been a local childcare consultant for over 17 years and can help parents with this wonderful childcare option anywhere in the US.

For more information, call Lori Brust at 516-797-8373 or go to her website at


3 thoughts on “Hosting an Au Pair – A Unique and Flexible Childcare Option

  1. I agree wholeheartedly with Lori’s description. My family had various au pairs over a 6-year period, and the long-lasting bond my children developed with their au pairs is one of the most rewarding features of the program!

  2. Au pair is a great idea, my sister tried two times but you need to lucky and have to cooperate with a good agency, I want to try it again for my daughter, would be very interested if you have someone how wants to come to Istanbul for summer,

  3. Au Pair’s are very common in our neighborhood. One of our friends have gotten unlucky twice and had to re-match mid-course. While it is a economical option with great cultural exposure for the kids, if you are unlucky, it can be cause unwarranted stress in the house. I still believe that the Pros outweigh the Cons

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